When love is within us, we stop living a conditional existence, we stop waiting for the world to approve of us and we stop denying our true essence<\/strong><\/p>\n Each person has a unique unconscious mind view of what an ideal romantic relationship is, based on their own filtered translation of their outer world, constituting their parents and other adults, children, books, and movies. These beliefs and ideas governs how a person behaves in moments of stress and also the quality of their decisions and emotional responses.<\/p>\n Most often, we hear complaints that men are not emotional enough\u2019 and \u2018women are overly emotional\u2019 or even vice versa. One of the most common complaint being, \u2018my partner is no longer the person I met.\u2019 These complaints indicate that our society is living in a box of limiting beliefs and very little knowledge about the art of creating healthy relationships, including non-romantic relationships.<\/p>\n Many minds have the simple version of their happy relationships playing like a movie continuously. Myths and tairytales live in our unconscious minds where the idea of a \u2018happily ever after\u2019 is firmly planted. It is something magical, like a prince arriving to win his princess\u2019s heart.<\/p>\n When this happens, the joy experienced takes over the mind and castles are built in the sky, where euphoric display of love is celebrated and a superhuman power executes an awakening in each other, the magnetic state of perceived bliss, whereby a simple rose petal can mean more than a diamond!<\/p>\n However, this illusion is shattered once the reality of a complex relationship starts to press the emotional buttons and people find themselves drowning in uncharted waters. So, in order for us to start re-creating a healthy model of romantic relationships, we first need to learn about the most important of ALL relationships – the one with yourself.<\/p>\n The lack of an established and well-managed equation with oneself, makes it impossible to live a congruent lite that flows and grows effortlessly. A person who does not love himself herself lives in fear of losing love and people. They start to control how people love them and when their expectations are not met, they fall apart. The solution is to connect with oneself. Hence, here are some valuable questions you can ask yourself:<\/p>\n People are living love from the \u2018outside in\u2019 concept. This is a very conditional state of living and explains many empty relationships that exist. When love is within us, we stop living a conditional existence, we stop waiting for the world to approve of us and we stop denying our true essence. We become liberated emotionally and we start living with an inner peace. We discover, we can become resilient, understanding and compassionate towards other people. We become skilled intolerance and attain a natural ability to speak our truth, knowing that as we treat ourselves, others learn to treat us.<\/p>\n The art of livtng love with another human being, creating a union deeper than the physical is absolutely possible, it simply requires a new school of thought, some sincere education and a total surrender to learning how to love being in your own body, building a healthy mind and being able to love from a state of unconditional bliss, which requires a commitment to lite. Lite and love Is then appreciated as a gift, instead of a burden In an unknown world, where victims inflict pain on each other, fighting for something that is as available as oxygen.<\/p>\n We start to realize that we are all maturing with time, we are continuously changing, the things we enjoyed five years ago, is no longer our joy, we learn to detach from the sameness we meet each other in and we start to grow together, allowing each other space to evolve. This is love. As enchanting as this idea is, there are definitely many challenges one has to face in order to create this reality. It could mean that the suffering relationship you are in, needs some resuscitation, perhaps even time apart, emotionally to re-align to yourself and heal your inner wounds. Thus, self-love is the key to healing relationships.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Self-Love is The Key to Heal Your Relationships When love is within us, we stop living a conditional existence, we … <\/p>\nThe Idea Of \u2018Happily Ever After\u2019<\/h3>\n
Connecting With Oneself<\/h3>\n
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The \u2018Outside In\u2019 Concept<\/h3>\n
A Commitment To Life<\/h3>\n
Understanding What Love Is<\/h3>\n